Sensation Play
It's not all bondage and discipline-- there's a lot of delightfully wicked things you can do to your lover when you've got 'em at your mercy. If you're just starting out, you might want to try a feather tickler. Perfect for exploring every sensitive inch of your lover, and finding new hot spots. The average human body has over 2300 square inches of skin, why not make all of them yours?
Odds are, you're not paying enough attention to your lover's nipples. And that's a damn shame, because you can have such fun with them. The feather tickler above is a good place to start, but what if you want something more? Well, the way we see it, you've got two choices: nipple play and anal play.
Remember, everybody's body is different, so experiment.